To the anon getting married. If you have to go on tumblr and ask if you are doing the right thing, that should be your red flag right there. You shouldn't have to ask anyone if you are making the right choice. And if you do, then maybe you aren't making the right/best choice. Love always comes and goes, especially high school relationships. Coming from me (a guy) who dated the same girl for 3 years towards the end of my high school years and then it just ended. You should sit and talk with him.